From the very beginning, even as we had carefully stared at those first photos from his orphanage in western China, we accepted the idea that some of Henry's issues might not be correctable and others would be hidden. It's interesting how perfectly natural this acceptance became in person, as we learned how Henry's physical challenges were inextricably part of his remarkable character, as well as part of what made him so special as one of our children.
But Monday, as we gazed at his newly heart-shaped face with its new button nose and centered mouth, albeit stitched, bruised, and swollen, we started to think realistically, maybe for the first time, about Henry eventually appearing pretty much just as a regular kid--and how astonishing this is, considering where this all started and everything it took to get to this point.

This was all preliminary stuff and further adjustments will be needed to the lip and nose in a few years, but the surgeons said that overall this round went better than they had hoped. We are all hoping the result will be good enough to avoid having to later do an extremely uncomfortable skin graft procedure called an Abbe flap that is sometimes used for Henry's particular condition. In this procedure, the surgeon takes tissue from the skin between the patient's lower lip and chin, and transfers it to the upper lip under the nose. The tissue remains connected to the donor site for up to several weeks so that the graft "takes" at the site where it has been placed. In other words the patient's lips are stitched together during this time. Hence it's not something to attempt before a child is old enough to clearly understand what's going on.
At any rate, this round went better than we, his parents, had hoped as well.
For now, however, all those sutures could still dehisce and we are being very careful, especially wary that pain medication can make Henry unpredictably wobbly. We are scheduled to return to the hospital next Monday to have the hard sutures removed to avoid scarring. This means that if we get through the weekend without them coming apart the reconnected tissue should be healed well enough by Monday to hold with just the dissolvable sutures underneath. We've placed extra fasteners on Henry's arm mitts and have ordered some better ones called Snuggle Wraps.
The wraps will need to stay on well past Monday to keep Henry from pulling out the long stents embedded in both his new nasal cavities and that are connected to interior sutures. These will need to stay in for up to a month in order to create a rounded shape for his nostrils. A repair of Henry’s dislodged ear tube was postponed as part of this round due to a scheduling problem, but we’ve rescheduled that to be combined with next Monday's suture removal.
If we’re lucky the worst may be behind us. We just need to somehow glide safely through the rest of the week.
10 comments:
He looks totally beautiful. I think you should just schedule all of your friends to come and form a ring of people around your living room and let Henry run around the middle of that ring, where there is someone to catch him no matter which way he might tip. The best part about this plan is that you definitely have enough friends to do it in 8 hours shift continuously for several months!
We are thinking of Henry today and
wishing you all the best.
With lots of Love from Vermont,
Kevin, Pam and Krysie
Hi Guys
Henry looks amazingly well!
Here is hoping that all goes well! two days down 5 more until the stitches come out and then the wait!
It is truly remarkable what surgeons can do and the success they have! I am hoping that Henry still manages to light up all our faces when he smiles!
Hugs
Ruth in NZ
All that I can say is...W-O-W!!!!:O
Henry looks gorgeous! I will be checking the blog for updates!
Henry's Fans,
Megan, Greg and Emma
(DTC for Sophie 09/30)
Such a handsome guy! So glad things went well.
We are sending your family lots of prayers and good vibes for a succesful and speedy recovery.
Dear Friends, what a beautiful blog spot and how wonderful to see the photos of the beautiful kids. It warmed my heart more than I can say. All best wishes always!
Sincerely,
George
(Dansker)
Oh my, how handsome you look Henry!! What a brave little boy you are!! Thanks for the update and we'll continue to check for further news!! Hugs, thoughts and prayers,
Piper, Rick and Jai-Li
Andy and Trish,
How great to learn that this round of surgery went so well. The picture looks fantastic! We are thinking of all of you and sending warm wishes for a speedy and successful recovery for little Henry.
Ellyn and Sean
Henry looks absolutely AMAZING!! You must all be so relieved to get another of these procedures behind you. I was thinking about him, and you, this morning. Praying that all of the sutures hold up through tomorrow!!
Henry looks great! I can't help but smile knowing just what a lucky little guy he is.
Vin Jr.
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